Everyone makes poor life decisions. I may have made one yesterday when I committed myself to post each day in the month of November as part of “National Blog Posting Month,” or “NaBloPoMo,” or the much-easier to pronounce “NanoPoblano.” Long story short, I let a dinosaur talk me into it, against my better judgment, although I probably wanted to be talked into it. But perhaps it will end up being a very good life decision (or at least a moderately okay one). We’ll see.
Don’t let my dark clouds of gloom scare you off, though, on what should be the first optimistic, bright-eyed day of a new month. I’m all about getting the negativity out of the way up front. (Hopefully it doesn’t backfire and result in this being my first – and last – post as part of NanoPoblano). So stick with me as I exhale all the reasons this is a bad idea, and then prepare for a month of breathing in awesomeness.
Why I shouldn’t do National Blog Posting Month (NaBloPoMo) (NanoPoblano)
- I don’t have time.False. You know the expression “there are lies, damn lies, and the time excuse?” Okay maybe that’s a little different from the original expression. But this is the easiest excuse, and it’s totally false. Yes I have a full time job, language classes three nights a week, a husband and a kitten. But somehow I manage to find time to do all kinds of other crap. Somehow people with all of these things plus children manage so surely I can too.
- I don’t have a plan.This is true. I decided on a whim to join just yesterday, and I only began entertaining the idea on Friday. I have no plan, no list of ideas, certainly not something as organized as a post calendar. However, the adventurer in me reminds me “No plan? No problem.” Sometimes when I travel I go in with a bit of an itinerary in mind. More often than not I simply book my transportation and (maybe) a place to stay, and figure the rest out when I’m there. Often the latter are the best trips, figuring it out and discovering as I go. Travel guides take the fun out of finding things for yourself. Here’s to hoping this philosophy is transferable.
- I’ll sacrifice quality for quantity.One of my commitments to readers on this blog is to focus on quality over quantity. I may not post often, but I commit to posting thoughtfully constructed pieces that often take days or longer to complete. However, this backfires when I get paralyzed by the pressure to perfection. As Anne Lamott writes,
Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people.
Perfectionism is the enemy of creativity, and probably one of the main reasons that, rather than focusing on quality or even quantity, I often post nothing at all.
- I’ll probably fail.You don’t need me to tell you that this is probably the stupidest reason on this list. I’m not even going to entertain it with a response.
- I don’t have my own space for writing.This is a nice way to say what I actually wanted to write, which is: My husband is a grad student. What this means for my writing is, because the only desk in our house is conquered utterly by him, I don’t have a physical space that can be dedicated to writing. We also have very incompatible working styles – I need to go into “the zone” and not be bothered for extended periods of time to get anything done. He needs to take frequent breaks, which usually involve coming to find me and, since I don’t have my own space, breaking me out of “the zone.” Which results in frustration on both sides, and is another reason why (I tell myself) I haven’t been able to do much writing lately. Really, though, I am blaming an external factor that could probably, rather than prevent me from writing at all, inspire some writing topics itself. (First post idea get! “Surviving life as a grad student spouse!”)
- I should be focusing on something more important.Such as language studies, or planning my future, or (let’s be honest) saving the world in Dragon Age: Inquisition. And maybe this is true. But that doesn’t mean not committing to posting once a day will make me any more productive in any of these other things (except perhaps the last one). Motivation breeds more motivation.
- I should be doing x, y and z that I’ve procrastinated rather than this.This is similar to the above, except it brings to mind other things I’ve been putting off, such as editing my Germany photos (from July!) and other various projects. I always have too many projects. But focusing on one project, rather than dividing my energy between all of them (and accomplishing none of them), will hopefully mean I’ll actually get something done for once.
- I will hate my life.Hopefully this problem will solve itself. I wrote fairly recently about some of my challenges in dealing with my own brokenness. I discussed how I’ve avoided writing because I’ve been afraid of what might come out. But without a way of getting that stuff out, it’s been rotting in me like a toxin. Rather than making me hate my life, I hope pushing myself to write each day will help me work things out, overcome, and love life a little more.
- I’m lucky if I can post once a month, never mind once a day.See all of the above. Insert inspirational quote about the fear of failure here.
- Nobody will read my posts so what’s the point.Thankfully, if you’re reading this, this last point has already been disproven. This should be the absolute least of my concerns thanks to the amazing communities I’ve committed myself to: my fellow Poblanos, the awesome folks at YeahWrite, and the folks I’ve yet to meet at BlogHer. I’ll be operating off of a “if you want good neighours, be a good neighbour” principle and doing my best to visit and comment at other people’s spaces as the month goes on. I’m pretty excited about who I will get to meet.
Thoughts, ideas, horror stories or words of encouragement? Are you doing NaBloPoMo in November? Let me know and share your link in the comments, I’d love to start my good neighbourliness with you!
26 thoughts on “Why I Shouldn’t Do National Blog Posting Month”
Love this! I’m sure most of us have thought of these excuses at some time or another, and they should all be refuted. And as for #7, maybe use NaBloPoMo to get a few of those things done? Turn them into a blog post! I try to do that sometimes. 🙂
NoMo excuses! Haha! Looking forward to this.
Exactly. Thanks! Me too!
I couldn’t think of anything more stressful.
Good luck! I am not prepared to take on such a challenge myself, but YOU CAN DO IT!
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Ooo – I know it’s not really kosher but if you could share that prescription of yours I feel I might need it this month too! 😉
No worries, I’m all for sharing and there is plenty RawrX to be had here: https://rarasaur.wordpress.com/nanopoblano-2015/ Happy November!
It makes me sad when people write about failing during NaBloPoMo. I like to keep this in perspective – the world isn’t going to end if I miss a day or two or twenty. This should be a fun challenge which is why I decided to surround myself with tiny peppers. And a duck 😉
Yes, that’s why I decided to get all the negative talk out of the way. It actually felt quite relieving to get all those doubts out (and realize I already had what it took to disarm most of them). Excited for the challenge!
The best part is discovering new blogs! Looking forward to more!
Hooray! I’m excited to see what’s out there since I haven’t been as active lately online. See you around! 🙂
There is no try, only do, and with the WP group, there is no fail, only bloggity fellowship 🙂
Yes! I was thinking of Yoda while writing parts of this post actually. In fact I’m saving my Yoda KD (macaroni & cheese for you American folk) for a day when I need an extra dose of motivation.
I like it! You are an inspiration to ME!! A day at a time. Blessings to you.
Last point definitely disproven. Can’t wait to read more!
Thanks for proving me wrong! 😉
I’m with you!! http://zombieflamingoes.com/ No plan, other than blogging every day…
Hooray! Zombie flamingoes sounds awesome, definitely going to check that out right away. Good luck!!!
Well I’ll be reading every thing you write. And I’ll be sharing it with my mama, too, because she already loves you for your cat. 😉 One of my favorite quotes about time is the one about how we have the same number of hours in our day that Leonardo Da Vinci and Mother Theresa and all these other superstars did. We will make good things from what we have. This is a brilliant, high-quality start. I look forward to peppering with you. 🙂 Our team needed a duck. #Fate
Happy Nano and good luck! ❤
Every team needs a duck. This is why you’re the wisest dinosaur the Internet has ever known! 🙂 Good luck to you as well!!!