Because moulds are for playdough, not people.
You’ve probably been stuck in quicksand before, even if you didn’t realize that’s what it was. Maybe you’re stuck in it right now. I heard the expression “emotional quicksand” on the radio last night – right alongside another resonating term “doomscrolling” – and realized even as I learned about its existence that I was already […]
Read More Emotional QuicksandA modest proposal to re-imagine Canada Day as Do Better Day. How do we make Canada a better place… for everyone? How do we break the moulds of racial injustice in Canada… today? Like any big important thing: we do it One Thing at a time.
Read More Do Better DayThe answer to injustice starts not with speaking but with listening, amplifying voices that need to be heard…
Read More AmplifyI used to say I’m taking things “day by day” but the days turned into weeks and the weeks are now turning into months, and at some point along the way day by day became too much to handle. So now, I am taking things morning by morning. Some mornings I wake up naturally with […]
Read More Morning By MorningNo matter how dark and long the night may seem, remember the sun always rises eventually.
Read More The Sun Always RisesToday is Holy Saturday, the in-between day. The day of silence, stillness, unknowns. In the Easter story timeline, the worst-case scenario has happened and no one yet knows what comes next. It’s a time of shock, stress, grief, anxiety, numbness, darkness, and waiting. In the current timeline… about the same. I feel very much in-between. […]
Read More In BetweenToday is Maundy Thursday, and I’m so glad it’s here. Finally, a day dedicated to lament and sorrow. All my favourite people are broken. But there’s enough sorrow in the world today. Why dwell on it? Why give it any more space? Optimism has its place, but so does lament. Believe me, my heart should […]
Read More A Day of Lament…of COURSE it’s an April Fool’s joke. But I did make an actual application form. And I’m sharing it here because: It’s entertaining! Responses so far have been hilarious – including one from an exotic camel! What else have we all got to do?!? So don’t be shy. Give it a go, share it with […]
Read More Application For RomanceI tried to write about hope, but it seemed too far away, too forced. I tried to find hope and found an article about penguins exploring empty aquariums, and that seemed good enough for now. The aquarium used the phrase “silver lining” and that seemed to fit a bit better than the vaguely taunting concept […]
Read More Silver Linings“But what if the greatest secret insider trading truth is that you don’t ever get over the biggest losses in your life?” -Anne Lamott The scary thing about books is that sometimes the characters jump clean out of the pages and into your life. This is what happened the other day when I was innocently […]
Read More Sometimes It’s Okay Not To ‘Get Over It’