I turned 40 recently. And I was worried about it for a while… until I wasn’t.
Because I realized, part of the way there, around 39-and-a-half (yes I still count my age in parts) that everyone’s #thisis40 is different, and that the measures of success, or “making it,” are different for everyone.
At just-turned-39 I was worried that I would turn 40 and still be living in a basement suite with a roommate.
Which I am, sort of, although I haven’t been to said basement suite since turning 40 over a month ago… which is part of the reason why I’m not worried about it anymore.
Not because I’m not currently there, but because I realized that my basement-suite-with-roommate life (and budget) allows me to live the other life I’ve dreamed of: the randomly-book-a-plane-ticket-and-fly-to-Australia life.
So no, I’m not married-with-children at 40. I’m not on a career achievement list of “40 under 40.” I’m not in the best-shape-of-my-life at 40. I don’t own a house on a hill by the ocean (yet).
But I’m pretty content to report that this is my #thisis40… and I’m feeling pretty dang good.



Chillin with the Cheer Peppers this November, click the pepper below to check them out…

You look fabulous! Enjoy your 40s – they’re so much more fun than earlier ages!
Gillian Wallace she/her
Welcome to 40! I will be entering my 5th year of 40 (aka 45) next year and I am determined to make it my best yet but also make it MY 45.
Your 40 is hot! 🙂 I love being 40 with you and I love writing alongside you, so I’m happy you’re Peppering again this year. Looking forward to following along. 🙂
Love this. I’m so glad you get to travel when you want; that you can just pick up and go. #alittlejealoustobehonest